因为爱过，所以不会成敌人；因为伤过，所以不会做朋友。
如果，前世的五百次回眸才换来今生的擦肩而过，那想来已经很幸福了――
其实，擦肩而过，也是一种很深的缘分。
佛说：五百次的回眸才能换来今生的擦肩而过。可以一秒钟遇到一个人，一分钟认识一个人，一个小时喜欢上一个人，一天时间爱上一个人，但是却要用一辈子去忘记一个人。
当她不爱你的时候，无论过去她是否爱过还是后来忘了，又或者是从未爱过，当你无法再成为她心里的那个人的时候，她的心便不会记得你。
请不要在你不开心时去打搅她，她那儿绝对不是你此刻应该的去处。
请不要与她讲你的琐事，她无暇更是没有兴趣去了解你、你的生活。即使讲了，她也很快会忘记的。没有爱，你注定挤不进她的生命。
请不要在她的面前流眼泪，她无法给予你照顾和关心，至多只是一点同情。只有爱你的人，才会真正的去珍惜你，而不是，旁观的同情和怜悯。当她不爱你的时候，你的爱便是她的负担。
请不要去计算自己的付出，不要希望有什么音箱。你用心，她无心，爱着不爱自己的人，本身便是没有回报的。不要计较对与错，这样会快乐些。
请不要失去自信，因为爱一个人，并非她的优秀，而只是一种感觉。她让你有这样的感觉，于是你爱她。同样，她不爱你，也并非你不优秀。优秀，不是爱的理由。还有那么多爱自己的人，淡淡地微笑一下，也是异样甜美的。
当她不爱你的时候，也一定要祝福她。有了爱，便不该有恨，因为曾经有爱，有爱的日子里是快乐的，有缘在一起也是快乐，有过快乐有过爱，就不会再有恨。她失去的是一个爱她的人，而你失去了一个不爱你的人，却得到了一个重新生活、重新去爱的机会。请你深深呼吸，一生的路上，铺满了爱的花蕾，总有那么一朵属于你，花儿虽多，却没有重复的一朵，这是生生世世早已经注定的。
当她不爱你的时候，就是你从他生活中消失的时候，第一时间离开她，骄傲地过属于自己的生活。同时，你也希望她能幸福快乐，找到属于她的未来。轻轻拥抱一下回忆里的温暖，轻柔地凝视凋谢的温柔。无论结果怎样都会破坏了曾经的美感。干干净净地离开，也许若干年后的某个午后，阳光下的她眯起双眼会记起某个美好的瞬间，会心一笑。种种怀念，值了。
爱不一定要离心机。曾经拥有的也许会是你一生最美好的回忆。因为爱过，所以不会成敌人；因为伤过，所以不会做朋友；只能是最熟悉的陌生人。爱过知情重，醉过知酒浓。关于爱的记忆，应该好好收藏，只是今后的幸福，要各自去寻找。
爱是一种感觉，不爱也是一种感觉，而往往难以抉择的是心中的感觉到底是爱还是不爱。原来握在手里的，不一定就是你们真正拥有的；你们所拥有的，也不一定就是你们真正铭刻在心的。人生很多时候需要自觉的放弃，因为拥有的时候，你们也许正在失去，而放弃的时候，你们也许又在重新获得。
明白的人懂得放弃，真情的人懂得牺牲，幸福的人懂得超脱。对不密集架自己的人，最需要的是理解、放弃和祝福。过多的自作多情是在乞求对方的施舍。爱与被爱，都是让人幸福的事情。不要让这些变成痛苦。既然你们已经经历了，多年以后，偶尔想起，希望都是美好的回忆。活的自信些，开心些，把最美的微笑留给伤你最深的人，聪明的人知道自己要快乐。
珍惜你爱的人和爱你的人.
Being awhile since i blog ..usually when i blog is because i feel sucky.Unexpectedly being doused with an icy cold bucket of water.
THe above things which i came across ..meaningful .. all along i try to smile to bring to my surrounding ... never expect others, my the other half or well to understand ... and who will ..maybe except my Gay will ...0.0
Nevertheless, emotion tends to be very obvious from me.
Never expect to be crying for the longest in this recent years ...and yet it did happen ..
Never expect to be gracious, demanding, taking things positive, end up is hurting myself.
Never expect the thought to found the one and yet turn up to be another emptiness to understand the meaning of walking hand in hand instead of perfectness.
Something that develops and grows, and also can shrink as well if not attending to. Love is not predestined that is for sure...but it can appear out of no where and happen anywhere and up to a couple to make things work out ..
Always, emotions have followed my intellect. Never the other way around. So, for me, it was always a choice. Never predestined, or anything like that... always up to us to see to feel to find to make the path longer.
Accept responsibility that we contributed to the demise of the relationship, however, that it was also a two-way street. There's no need to dwell on what each person "did" or "did not" do. Assess it what relationship areas we could probably address for future relationships and make a commitment to do something about it or to work things out in pair ..
sigh ..juz feel like nagging abit, don't no what m i saying too ...
Down down down .. hope blogging make my time pass faster ..
Nevertheless, 2009 ? Zzzzz
Wednesday, December 31, 2008
Monday, December 8, 2008
Out of the BLue ...
Well damm it .. my pay heven came in dupz ...and well i being home for the past few days .. thinking about stuff ... wondering when my hp will ring ...
Somehow or rather, m thinking, and i came across this article which i find it interesting ...
48% of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as the primary reason they cheated.
So much for the myth that for men, cheating is all about sex: Only 8 percent of men said that sexual dissatisfaction was the main factor in their infidelity. "Our culture tells us that all men need to be happy is sex," Neuman says. "But men are emotionally driven beings too. They want their wives to show them that they're appreciated, and they want women to understand how hard they're trying to get things right." The problem is that men are less likely than women to express these feelings, so you won't always know when your guy is in need of a little affirmation. "Most men consider it unmanly to ask for a pat on the back, which is why their emotional needs are often overlooked," Neuman says. "But you can create a marital culture of appreciation and thoughtfulness - and once you set the tone, he's likely to match it."
True ? but as a guy well it is quite true for me lol ..it all point down to communication and again like i say, its all about making the right tracks and to understand wat it takes to be.
Only 12% of cheating men said their mistress was more physically attractive than their wife.
In other words, a man doesn't stray because he thinks he'll get better sex with a better-looking body. "In most cases, he's cheating to fill an emotional void," Neuman says. "He feels a connection with the other woman, and sex comes along for the ride." If you're worried about infidelity, focus on making your relationship more loving and connected, not on getting your body just right or mastering new sexual positions. (But know that sex does matter - it's one of the key ways your guy expresses his love and feels close to you, so be sure to keep it a priority.)
Interesting ya but well it is quite true ...
I seems to be hinting something afterall lol ..
Well later then ...
Somehow or rather, m thinking, and i came across this article which i find it interesting ...
48% of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as the primary reason they cheated.
So much for the myth that for men, cheating is all about sex: Only 8 percent of men said that sexual dissatisfaction was the main factor in their infidelity. "Our culture tells us that all men need to be happy is sex," Neuman says. "But men are emotionally driven beings too. They want their wives to show them that they're appreciated, and they want women to understand how hard they're trying to get things right." The problem is that men are less likely than women to express these feelings, so you won't always know when your guy is in need of a little affirmation. "Most men consider it unmanly to ask for a pat on the back, which is why their emotional needs are often overlooked," Neuman says. "But you can create a marital culture of appreciation and thoughtfulness - and once you set the tone, he's likely to match it."
True ? but as a guy well it is quite true for me lol ..it all point down to communication and again like i say, its all about making the right tracks and to understand wat it takes to be.
Only 12% of cheating men said their mistress was more physically attractive than their wife.
In other words, a man doesn't stray because he thinks he'll get better sex with a better-looking body. "In most cases, he's cheating to fill an emotional void," Neuman says. "He feels a connection with the other woman, and sex comes along for the ride." If you're worried about infidelity, focus on making your relationship more loving and connected, not on getting your body just right or mastering new sexual positions. (But know that sex does matter - it's one of the key ways your guy expresses his love and feels close to you, so be sure to keep it a priority.)
Interesting ya but well it is quite true ...
I seems to be hinting something afterall lol ..
Well later then ...
Friday, November 21, 2008
Been Awhile
Been awhile since i last blog.
What have i been doing ? Swaying around, looking around .. working ..
And somehow recently i began to be mentality very tired.
Longing for something and hope to be love .. craving for the feeling ..
Love is like the ocean. Everybody sees something different when they look at it. For some, it's a place to have fun. For others, it's a scary place where you can drown or be eaten by sharks.
When you're standing on the shore, you see the waves go one by one after the other. You see the flow of the tide. So you think it comes and it goes.
Where you're sitting on the surface, it takes some getting used to. Sometimes it's choppy. Sometimes the waves are really big. Sometimes it's flat and there's not wind. And you think there's a lot of scary stuff lurking below, like undertows, stingrays, jellyfish, and sharks -- all waiting to hurt you -- or worse.
But when you're in it, it's all around you. And most of the earth is ocean. It never requires proof because it's always there. And it's always been there.
Of course, there are always going to be some people in the ocean who are always trying to get somewhere. But there will always be the few who understand that they're already there...
Well same old stories, people complain but never knew what is there and already there or to make things happen.
There are many factors in my life that has gotten me where I am today. One of the surprising things that has had a tremendous impact in my life i guess is when i was 14 and well sigh long story, one is the shortage of love that somehow lead to be very independent and to fight for what i want, and after fighting for what i have, i become too obesse in it and thus taking things for granted and living in a world of entertainment, attention, etc.
And now .. learn to be satisfy,and realize what is more important ...
Trying to make everyday count.
Make every feeling towards someone good. Don't be angry or bitter. Be free from the horrible pattern that this world is taking all of us through ... lol
Somehow deep down .. m really tired .. always going thru the same process, SOP ..lol
And how many really do understand ... or to know our well being and the things we say to guide and to make it better ...
Well the story keep repeating over the years, when will it come to a good ending ..
Heh been awhile i chill out ..
What have i been doing ? Swaying around, looking around .. working ..
And somehow recently i began to be mentality very tired.
Longing for something and hope to be love .. craving for the feeling ..
Love is like the ocean. Everybody sees something different when they look at it. For some, it's a place to have fun. For others, it's a scary place where you can drown or be eaten by sharks.
When you're standing on the shore, you see the waves go one by one after the other. You see the flow of the tide. So you think it comes and it goes.
Where you're sitting on the surface, it takes some getting used to. Sometimes it's choppy. Sometimes the waves are really big. Sometimes it's flat and there's not wind. And you think there's a lot of scary stuff lurking below, like undertows, stingrays, jellyfish, and sharks -- all waiting to hurt you -- or worse.
But when you're in it, it's all around you. And most of the earth is ocean. It never requires proof because it's always there. And it's always been there.
Of course, there are always going to be some people in the ocean who are always trying to get somewhere. But there will always be the few who understand that they're already there...
Well same old stories, people complain but never knew what is there and already there or to make things happen.
There are many factors in my life that has gotten me where I am today. One of the surprising things that has had a tremendous impact in my life i guess is when i was 14 and well sigh long story, one is the shortage of love that somehow lead to be very independent and to fight for what i want, and after fighting for what i have, i become too obesse in it and thus taking things for granted and living in a world of entertainment, attention, etc.
And now .. learn to be satisfy,and realize what is more important ...
Trying to make everyday count.
Make every feeling towards someone good. Don't be angry or bitter. Be free from the horrible pattern that this world is taking all of us through ... lol
Somehow deep down .. m really tired .. always going thru the same process, SOP ..lol
And how many really do understand ... or to know our well being and the things we say to guide and to make it better ...
Well the story keep repeating over the years, when will it come to a good ending ..
Heh been awhile i chill out ..
Saturday, September 27, 2008
THe 3rd weeks i being siGhing ...
Feeling rather moody for the past few weeks and i shut myself off, and sleep my day away .. sleeping for more then u can imagine .. siGh ...
At times i thought that i really had let go of the past, but sometimes i wished that something had never end. For the past few mths without her, i been living a life without tomorrow. Spend like there's no tomorrow, club like there's no tomorrow. But end of the day i still feel empty. I really dun enjoy the life i living now. i really wish for something that i proud of and worth working for.
But well i gueSs the priority now is to make my every day full fill to be with a JOb that i like .. i always wonder when will be the day someone will recognize my ability, i always think i can do better if given the chance... well recently i start to have another thinking, should i try to switch my belief from love stories to realistic stories to be ..
Then TODAY my Gay friend told me ..heh you finally wake up to your ideas .. lol.
Am i all the while living in a land of fantasy, hoping and wishing for fairy like stories ..
Hatezz say :-
Been watching 溏心風暴之家好月圓. How i wish that i had a family like their. Been like crying for almost every episodes. How i wish that i had that kind of family warm. Few days back, i missed home-cook food so much. It been like ages since i had someone cooking for me. That kind of warm that i always long for. Whenever i passby my neighbour house at dinner time, i feel the kind of sour running through me. At times i wish that i could start afresh at a foreign country where no one know who i'm and no one or things that remind me of my past.
James say well Hi^5, i wish too .. it always being in my thoughts and for one reason why i cannot forget someone .. not because of anything but the feeling she give me which i being craving for so long ..and everything is just what i want to be, something which i feel warm from her love and all because of my stupid principle, things had to turn another way round ..
And so i sms her out of the blue and ask her How r u ..have have u been ..
The reply is well .. "Can u dun bother to msg me? I dun feel like received yr msg. I been very well nt tgt wif u." sound disheartening ya .. I just reply ..that was not what i meant, just being concern as a friend ..
At the end of the day ..the greatest enemy is still me, the me who causes all this to happen .. but still i believe one day someone out there will understand ..
At times i thought that i really had let go of the past, but sometimes i wished that something had never end. For the past few mths without her, i been living a life without tomorrow. Spend like there's no tomorrow, club like there's no tomorrow. But end of the day i still feel empty. I really dun enjoy the life i living now. i really wish for something that i proud of and worth working for.
But well i gueSs the priority now is to make my every day full fill to be with a JOb that i like .. i always wonder when will be the day someone will recognize my ability, i always think i can do better if given the chance... well recently i start to have another thinking, should i try to switch my belief from love stories to realistic stories to be ..
Then TODAY my Gay friend told me ..heh you finally wake up to your ideas .. lol.
Am i all the while living in a land of fantasy, hoping and wishing for fairy like stories ..
Hatezz say :-
Been watching 溏心風暴之家好月圓. How i wish that i had a family like their. Been like crying for almost every episodes. How i wish that i had that kind of family warm. Few days back, i missed home-cook food so much. It been like ages since i had someone cooking for me. That kind of warm that i always long for. Whenever i passby my neighbour house at dinner time, i feel the kind of sour running through me. At times i wish that i could start afresh at a foreign country where no one know who i'm and no one or things that remind me of my past.
James say well Hi^5, i wish too .. it always being in my thoughts and for one reason why i cannot forget someone .. not because of anything but the feeling she give me which i being craving for so long ..and everything is just what i want to be, something which i feel warm from her love and all because of my stupid principle, things had to turn another way round ..
And so i sms her out of the blue and ask her How r u ..have have u been ..
The reply is well .. "Can u dun bother to msg me? I dun feel like received yr msg. I been very well nt tgt wif u." sound disheartening ya .. I just reply ..that was not what i meant, just being concern as a friend ..
At the end of the day ..the greatest enemy is still me, the me who causes all this to happen .. but still i believe one day someone out there will understand ..
Monday, September 22, 2008
Wad a WeEkend ..
WEnt to Lunar on Sat for Gab birthday and spent the whole of Sun sleeping .. lol can't believe it .. i guess to make up the lack of slp ..and after so many drinks on sat ..
Lunar was celebrating their 1 year anniversary, so Cao Ge was there to sing for the night .. hmm not really a huge fan of him but well still enjoy listening to the song anyway .. but there was really allot of fans of his on that night .. Me and my friends were like sitting right in front of Cao Ge and behind me, wow pretty actress .. i didn't realize that till my friend told me .. never knew face to face they're so pretty.. and quite friendly too, at least don't look dao ..well i don't remember what their name anyway hee ..
Lol then there was this moment when Cao Ge went down from stage to shake hand with the peeps in front and well lol so when he was about to shake hand with me, he took his hand off .. lol look so ps for a moment then ... faint.
Had quite a number of drinks but still manage to pull it off being drunk .. lol
Not a bad night with friends around and catching up with friend which i have not seem for quite awhile .. and in between went over to MOS, as usual sign people in and well drinks again ..
The night ended when the birthday boy was drunk hee ..
Oh well i guess i need to find a job fast ..m getting bored already ..and going broke soon with every weekend drink drank drunk .. lol
But then .. i still feel kind of low morale and no motivation .. no aim no target ..sian and becoming so lazy .. just don't wish to think ..so i guess i spent most of the time sleeping away .. sigh ..
Hope it get better soon ..
Lunar was celebrating their 1 year anniversary, so Cao Ge was there to sing for the night .. hmm not really a huge fan of him but well still enjoy listening to the song anyway .. but there was really allot of fans of his on that night .. Me and my friends were like sitting right in front of Cao Ge and behind me, wow pretty actress .. i didn't realize that till my friend told me .. never knew face to face they're so pretty.. and quite friendly too, at least don't look dao ..well i don't remember what their name anyway hee ..
Lol then there was this moment when Cao Ge went down from stage to shake hand with the peeps in front and well lol so when he was about to shake hand with me, he took his hand off .. lol look so ps for a moment then ... faint.
Had quite a number of drinks but still manage to pull it off being drunk .. lol
Not a bad night with friends around and catching up with friend which i have not seem for quite awhile .. and in between went over to MOS, as usual sign people in and well drinks again ..
The night ended when the birthday boy was drunk hee ..
Oh well i guess i need to find a job fast ..m getting bored already ..and going broke soon with every weekend drink drank drunk .. lol
But then .. i still feel kind of low morale and no motivation .. no aim no target ..sian and becoming so lazy .. just don't wish to think ..so i guess i spent most of the time sleeping away .. sigh ..
Hope it get better soon ..
Sunday, September 14, 2008
What a Night ...
Hmm went clubbing at MOS ... saw allot of friends ..sisters too ..
And allot of my friend that went together with me .. and today really broke record ..sign in i guess got 15 people ? lol so pai seh .. and i have to PR again haha ..
Well lots of drinks .. end up 1 drunk ..few high .. and left 3 bottle of wine behind for not able to finish it ... i think total got 12 bottles of wine lol.
I try to find back certain feeling but well i don't seems to enjoy at all... even dance floor feel boring or well just can't stand guys nowadays, so end up being body guard.. i really can't stand some guy, don't understand what is so nice just to stand there and bua from behind .. there is this guy really sway ..he try to bua with 2 of my gal friends ..then end up i chase him off then he go try his luck on another group of gals, then well my friends too .. end up chase him away too, but still so thick skin then i push him off .. really nerd ..don't even dare to do anything, then his friend keep saying ps .. lol .. but well i do admire their thick skin and being ignorance haha ... well i try to enjoy too with the gals around but somehow i really don't feel anything nor i enjoy it .. so well just take care of them ..
Haiz, at times i guess m really getting old .. things i want change ..point of view looking towards certain things change too ... i really wonder when will be my turn to have a chance of luck.
M i really holding too much to the past .. like what my gay friend say .. so the below song suit me .. lol
收藏再眼眸，常徘徊左右
爱，猜到没有？
愉快玩笑后
能全然退后
你开心就够
这种感觉太真厚
讲一千句也不够
假使讲了你听到后，或会走
这种恋爱太罕有
不需真正拥有
成全 ，衷心祝福然后...
就放手
放手，放开所有
彼此更自由， 放手...
其实我决非爱得不够！
放手，豁出所有
还有这个好友，已经，已经足够...
遥远是宇宙
静静在背后
去看守就够
这种感觉太深厚
讲一千句也不够
即使一刹有过冲动
挽你手
这种恋爱太罕有
不需真正拥有
成全，多舍不得仍然是放手
放手，放开所有，彼此更自由
放手，其实我决非爱得不够
放手，豁出所有，还有这个好友
经，已经足够
放手，我的牵挂，找不到尽头
放手，寄望你幸福什么都有
也许，爱很深厚
而我，早看得透
放手，只可拥有
Hmm m i doing too many bad things ..well let me think back ..to be honest not really .. i treat everyone with my heart, take care of them, even if things happen, i don't cheat to gain something or to cheat for the needs, so well what went wrong, maybe m just not bastard enough .. or well m really too soft hearted to certain things, even my work goes wrong, i really wonder what is wrong with me to cause all this things.
But for everything that went wrong, i guess somehow i had to play a part .. be it me, wrong or right .. i had to be positive, as long as i still hold on to my ethic i guess ...
well ... wtf now is 8 am ..and i still not slping faint ..
And allot of my friend that went together with me .. and today really broke record ..sign in i guess got 15 people ? lol so pai seh .. and i have to PR again haha ..
Well lots of drinks .. end up 1 drunk ..few high .. and left 3 bottle of wine behind for not able to finish it ... i think total got 12 bottles of wine lol.
I try to find back certain feeling but well i don't seems to enjoy at all... even dance floor feel boring or well just can't stand guys nowadays, so end up being body guard.. i really can't stand some guy, don't understand what is so nice just to stand there and bua from behind .. there is this guy really sway ..he try to bua with 2 of my gal friends ..then end up i chase him off then he go try his luck on another group of gals, then well my friends too .. end up chase him away too, but still so thick skin then i push him off .. really nerd ..don't even dare to do anything, then his friend keep saying ps .. lol .. but well i do admire their thick skin and being ignorance haha ... well i try to enjoy too with the gals around but somehow i really don't feel anything nor i enjoy it .. so well just take care of them ..
Haiz, at times i guess m really getting old .. things i want change ..point of view looking towards certain things change too ... i really wonder when will be my turn to have a chance of luck.
M i really holding too much to the past .. like what my gay friend say .. so the below song suit me .. lol
收藏再眼眸，常徘徊左右
爱，猜到没有？
愉快玩笑后
能全然退后
你开心就够
这种感觉太真厚
讲一千句也不够
假使讲了你听到后，或会走
这种恋爱太罕有
不需真正拥有
成全 ，衷心祝福然后...
就放手
放手，放开所有
彼此更自由， 放手...
其实我决非爱得不够！
放手，豁出所有
还有这个好友，已经，已经足够...
遥远是宇宙
静静在背后
去看守就够
这种感觉太深厚
讲一千句也不够
即使一刹有过冲动
挽你手
这种恋爱太罕有
不需真正拥有
成全，多舍不得仍然是放手
放手，放开所有，彼此更自由
放手，其实我决非爱得不够
放手，豁出所有，还有这个好友
经，已经足够
放手，我的牵挂，找不到尽头
放手，寄望你幸福什么都有
也许，爱很深厚
而我，早看得透
放手，只可拥有
Hmm m i doing too many bad things ..well let me think back ..to be honest not really .. i treat everyone with my heart, take care of them, even if things happen, i don't cheat to gain something or to cheat for the needs, so well what went wrong, maybe m just not bastard enough .. or well m really too soft hearted to certain things, even my work goes wrong, i really wonder what is wrong with me to cause all this things.
But for everything that went wrong, i guess somehow i had to play a part .. be it me, wrong or right .. i had to be positive, as long as i still hold on to my ethic i guess ...
well ... wtf now is 8 am ..and i still not slping faint ..
Wednesday, September 3, 2008
Rainy blue sky day ...
I been hibernating for awhile .. well time to wakie ..doesn't mean i m lazing anyway :)
I’ve been watching Forensic Heroes 2 and one of the song - You are my Angel. The lyrics are really simple and the song is beautiful.
Once upon a time,
Arcangel in the sky,
May it cover every night,
Once upon a time,
The angel loved me so,
It’s a miracle in the snow, my heart won’t be cold
My dear, you are my angel,
Tell me what you know,
Something should be told
My dear, you are my angel,
Tell me where you go,
I will brace behind your love
* Dun cry over what we lost ... laugh for what we have and treasure
I’ve been watching Forensic Heroes 2 and one of the song - You are my Angel. The lyrics are really simple and the song is beautiful.
Once upon a time,
Arcangel in the sky,
May it cover every night,
Once upon a time,
The angel loved me so,
It’s a miracle in the snow, my heart won’t be cold
My dear, you are my angel,
Tell me what you know,
Something should be told
My dear, you are my angel,
Tell me where you go,
I will brace behind your love
* Dun cry over what we lost ... laugh for what we have and treasure
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